Give Him Love by jumping him Juicily when he comes through the door.

Give Her Love by sweeping her into your arms when she comes through the door.

Give Him Love by respecting his work in the world.

Give Her Love by admiring the beauty she brings into the world.

Give Him Love by lifting his heavy toil with your radiant optimism and courage.

Give Her Love by easing her heart’s burdens with your grounded strength and presence.

Give Him Love by dressing Sexy for him.

Give Her Love by adoring her whether she is radiant or raw.

Give Him Love by scratching his back.

Give Her Love by caressing her body and soothing her Soul.

Give Him Love by honouring his ways of handling what life presents.

Give Her Love by honouring Her ways of feeling through what life presents.

Give Him Love by offering more trust than you’re comfortable with.

Give Her Love by offering more presence than you think you have.

Give Him Love by following his lead from your power of surrender.

Give Her Love by leading with clarity and strength while cherishing her power.

Give Him Love by defending his honour.

Give Her Love by protecting her essence and cherishing her vulnerability.

Give Him Love by dropping all the walls you’ve been holding and throwing yourself into the fire of connection again and again.

Give Her Love by opening your own heart and entering the fire of connection again and again.

Give Him Love by making being with you the most peaceful and exciting part of his day.

Give Her Love by making being with you the safest and most ecstatic part of her day.

Give Him Love by knowing your feminine love is what makes his life crackle with life force.

Give Her Love by knowing your masculine devotion is what makes her blossom as the very pulse of ecstasy.

This is the rhythm of Sacred Union…where his power ignites her radiance, and her devotion awakens his strength. Where two Souls burn away separation and rise as one living flame.

Love becomes ecstasy. Ecstasy becomes devotion. And devotion becomes the very heartbeat of God.

Satyen Raja

photo from our Indian wedding.We celebrated twice…a Christian ceremony for Suzanne’s lineage, and a Hindu ceremony for mine. Two traditions, one Union.

30years later, these devotional gifts still keeps our love strong and passionate.